In Memory of Docent Sue Upshaw


November 16, 2019 Update from Doug Upshaw:

Please save the date for a celebration for Sue at the Natural History Museum in Exposition Park, Los Angeles.
We will have conversation, memories, music, cocktails and hors d'oeuvres.
More information and a RSVP later.
Please pass this along to others that knew Sue and that I may have missed.  Have them contact me for the RSVP details.
Doug

Saturday, January 18, 2020 6:00pm
Natural History Museum of Los Angeles County
900 Exposition Boulevard
Los Angeles, CA 90007

Begin blog info in memory of Sue Upshaw:

From Naturalist, Winter 2019 (double click on image to enlarge):






























The following emails were circulated and are repeated here in one blog source.  As more information, emails and pictures are received, they will be posted as well.  Sue became an active docent in 1993.

Chuck,

Please call when you have time.

Doug


As a result: 

Dear DRT Members,

For those of you that may not have heard our sad news, Docent Sue Upshaw passed away on Wednesday, October 16. 2019  after a long illness.

Those of us who worked with her on Thursdays, (morning shift), will long remember her courageous struggle with Multiple Sclerosis. Her disease never stopped her from her work as a dedicated docent at NHM. She had the best attendance record.

She never complained about her disease and never expected any special consideration. We sometimes helped when she wasn't looking...(placing the curiosity cart for her in front of the hall before she got there for shift.) She was proud and independent. We admired and respected her spirit and wit and her knowledge. She had a wry sense of humor and was an unforgettable "Character"

We were "early birds" and sometimes spent time together before other docents arrived lamenting all the changes, thinking back on the good all days and laughing about the absurdities of life.

She will always be in our hearts, even though she could be "difficult" at times! Who isn't?

I will post "Happy Memories of Sue" on the Bulletin Board some time this coming week.
She was in the Class of 1990. I will let you know of any services planned.

"A beautiful soul is never forgotten" 

Mary!


What some of the docents have said about our Sue:

She had “True Grit” I admired how she kept volunteering even when she had to depend on a walker. She sent amusing emails. She has been missed and that will not change.

She had the love of the Museum for so many years

Very sad news about Sue. She was a wonderful person who enjoyed the Docents and Fellows Programs. I know that she and Doug enjoyed classical music and both were committed to the communities of NHM and the California Science Center. She will be missed.

So very sorry to hear. May she rest in peace.

I met Sue and Doug on Museum trips to Guatemala and Mexico in 1993 and 1994. I encouraged Sue to become a docent and was so pleased when both she and Doug did so. May she rest in peace.

My heart goes out to Doug and to all of us who knew Sue. We had been feeling the hole she left here at the Museum, and I am terribly saddened  to know we won’t see her again.

So sorry to hear that Sue is no longer with us. A few years after I started volunteering at the Museum, I entered the Caf̩ one day and saw her sitting by herself having lunch. She beckoned me to join her, and it was during that lunch that I learned what a truly amazing woman she was Рwith degrees in chemistry and chemical engineering, and a career working in data management and computer science, she was a trailblazer for women who later entered those professions. I continued to enjoy our sporadic conversations throughout the years and will indeed miss her. May she rest in peace.

Great memories of her hitting me with her cane. She was a pioneer in the computer programming field and one of the first women programmers. An amazing accomplished person who loved life.

I was sorry to hear that Sue passed. She was bright, funny and a great docent. She will be missed.

As a Thursday docent I often followed Doug & Sue from the parking lot And saw the love and care he shared with her.

She was so quick-witted and funny and brought such a spirit to our huddle. She was also knowledgeable, sassy, fun, dependable and insightful. She has been and will be missed.

An icon has passed.

Those of us, who worked with her on Thursdays, will long remember her courageous struggle with Multiple Sclerosis. Her disease never stopped her from her work as a docent at NHM. She had the best attendance record. She never complained about her disease and never expected any special considerations. She was proud and independent. We admired and respected her spirit, wit and knowledge. She had a “wry” sense of humor and was an unforgettable character.
She will always be in our hearts!

“A BEAUTIFUL SOUL IS NEVER FORGOTTEN!”


Sue will be missed for the many expressions
she shared. I will miss her for the smile, the brightness in her eyes when she finishes a funny story in the Thursday morning Docent meeting.  
Her courage and independent 
mental strength is always there for all
to remember.

As a Thursday docent I often followed Doug and Sue in from the parking lot and saw the love and care he shared with her.

I was so sorry to hear that Sue had passed. She was bright, funny and a faithful docent. She will be missed.

I just received a call from Doug Upshaw that Sue passed away yesterday. At this time, there are no plans for a memorial, but Doug will let us know.  
I met Sue and Doug on Museum trips to Guatemala and Mexico in 1993 and 1994.  I encouraged Sue to become a Docent and was so pleased when both she and later Doug did so.  May she rest in peace.

So very sorry to hear.  May she rest in peace.  I'll get a condolence card for all of us.  Thanks for letting us know.

Very sad news about Sue. She was a wonderful person who enjoyed the Docent and Fellows programs. I know that she and Doug enjoyed classical music and both were committed to the communities of the Natural Museum and the California Science Center. She will be missed.


Sue made every Thursday more interesting. She spoke her mind and was true to herself.  As I think of her moving along with cane and then wheel chair I realize that she was brave.  Thursdays will be a little quieter without her.

Great memories of her hitting me with her cane. She was a pioneer in the computer programming field and one of the first woman programmers. An amazing accomplished person who loved life. 

Sue had "True Grit." I admired how she kept volunteering even when she had to depend on a walker. She sent amusing emails. She has been missed and that will not change.

I am truly saddened by the passing of this remarkable woman.  Her dedication, intelligence, strength, devotion and courage, to walk our museum halls with a smile and commitment,  have inspired those around her throughout her many years at our beloved museum.
She will be profoundly missed by all who knew her and I'm sure that we all will feel greatly diminished by her passing.

An icon has passed. Carry on!

Sue was able, even with advanced MS, to attend the DRT Field Trips as you can see in the following pictures:













































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